There are often many unpleasant situations between students and teachers. Different points of view, priorities and level of knowledge are the foundation on which a lot of misunderstandings appear. Are you aware of how to soften the situation and make it easy to forget? We'll help you to overcome this problem!
Of course, it will be better to prevent the occurrence of such stressful situations instead of picking the way of solving the problem. Remember: that it is not you who was disliked: it's just the answer that did not satisfy the teacher personally, and that did not meet the requirements. Be careful with the personal offences. While losing your temper it might be difficult to silence your mind that speaks very loud. In that case, we consider 3 steps that help to overcome the conflict.
Step 1: Think About It
Perhaps conflicts occur daily in everyone's life. It cannot be considered as a good or bad thing. The questions you should be asking yourself are “Why has the conflict appeared? What was the reason?” Try to outline things in which you are right and points in which your teacher is right. Be objective and build some constructive assumptions about the situation.
Step 2: Have a Talk
Try to be open in order not to support this conflict but to do everything to make it disappear. Discuss the reasons with the teacher, explain your ideas and tolerate with the words that'll be given as an answer. Try to rethink the problem. Your relationships should overcome just your personal ego. If it's needed - apologize, though in many cases a teacher feels his fault too. The best way to start a conversation with a teacher about what happened is “What can I do to...?” This is a popular method that is used to show the teacher you don’t expect him to solve the situation alone. Eventually, you need to understand each other and forget about the issue.
Step 3: Improve Yourself
Conflicts are an essential part of a human communication. Thus, we should take them for granted and do not avoid them. They help to emphasize on the important problems. We should also be able to clear them up, decide how to adjust the conversation in a way to make it not aggressive. Remember: always start with yourself and your own behavior. Hard work pays off, especially the work on your temper.
To sum up, never let yourself say something offensive even when you're angry and opposed to criticism. You may sound erratic and unreasonable. Prevent the conflict if possible or let it happen but still control yourself. Then you'll be really thankful for not adding any negative in your life.